Extraordinary, exquisite, exceptional relationships that get better and better with time
Create a real-life love story without sacrificing your peace, your your standards, or your success
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Real coaching conversations with women looking to create their dream love (shared with their permission, of course!)
Case studies of real clients sharing what worked for them
Full classes plucked straight from the Love Story membership to learn how to bring your own love story to life!
Who’s behind Magnetic Femininity?
My name is Shelsey Jarvis, and I’m a relationship coach for women who desire the kind of relationship that most people think is “too good to be true”.
After going through a divorce from a 10-year marriage with 2 kids, I desired to find love with a partner who made me feel like I’d won the love lottery…and who would feel like he won the lottery with me!
As an ambitious woman with big dreams, I knew I needed to find a man who could not only match me, but truly partner with me in creating a life where our dreams come true one by one.
My dating philosophy was designed to help me use EVERY interaction (good or bad) as a step closer to my dream partner.
I implemented a process that felt fun to me, protected my energy, and frankly, was designed to show me who a man is sooner rather than later so I don’t get overly invested in the wrong person.
The result was that in 2022, I met my current partner who is everything I could have asked for and more, who believes wholeheartedly in the work I do with women, and is committed to devoting to being a family with me and my 2 children.
Magnetic Femininity was born in 2019 from my desire to share my love story journey as it unfolds, and help you win the love lottery too!
Want to see how I can help you create extraordinary love? Book a free consultation with me here!
Why Magnetic Femininity is Different
Our dating process is rooted in self-love, self-respect, and intention; all while also honouring and respecting the men you interact with and NEVER playing games or being anything other than who you really are.
We don’t man-bash here. We teach you how to hold a high standard and not settle for men who simply don’t have what it takes to be with you at this time, and we also don’t invalidate the very real issues that come up while dating; but we do not enable the “venting” around dating, relationships, and men that isn’t intending to grow and learn. We are committed to being a space where people can see real-life, positive examples of love, dating, and men. There are a million places on the internet for those just looking to complain and commiserate about dating; this isn’t one of them.
Implementing this dating process includes practicing the essential relationship skills that will cause your relationship to get better, hotter, and deeper with time (rather than just “getting” a relationship only to watch it deteriorate with time).
You do not have to go on hundreds of dates and treat it like a numbers game in order to find love. With our methods, each interaction is used to slingshot you closer to your dream partner with as little effort as possible, rather than getting stuck repeating patterns and getting increasingly jaded and resentful of how much time you spend on it.
We do not treat masculine and feminine energy like gender roles here–which means that successful, ambitious, high-earning women can absolutely still be the feminine energy in a relationship, without ever having to dumb herself down or play the helpless damsel. We teach you how to find the secure, healthy, masculine men who celebrate you and build you up!
Feminine embodiment is a huge focus–which means we go deeper than just “looking” feminine here. We do deep work to liberate and express your core feminine essence not only so that you feel more “you” than you’ve ever felt in your life, but also so that you become a radiant beacon for the healthy masculine men who are truly seeking emotional intimacy and long-term commitment.
